Domestic Violence
25 Statements that Portend Intimate Partner Violence
Cheralyn Leeby Ph.D., LMFT on May 26, 2024 in Consciously Creating Your Soul Life
Intimate partner violence affects millions worldwide and many survivors suffer in silence. There are common phrases, as red flags and indications of current or future abuse.
Intimate partner violence affects millions worldwide and many survivors suffer in silence. There are common phrases, as red flags and indications of current or future abuse.
Perfectionism
The Bad Advice of "Always Be Useful"
Leon Garber LMHC on May 25, 2024 in Perfectionism
Being useful isn't always good and can, sometimes, backfire. Perfectionists often struggle to deeply connect with others due to their preoccupations with their standards.
Being useful isn't always good and can, sometimes, backfire. Perfectionists often struggle to deeply connect with others due to their preoccupations with their standards.
Relationships
How to Make Sense of a Relationship Betrayal
Susan Krauss Whitbourne PhD, ABPP on May 25, 2024 in Fulfillment at Any Age
Being lied to or exploited by someone close to you can be an unnerving experience. New research unpacks the emotions of the betrayer, showing who you can and cannot trust.
Being lied to or exploited by someone close to you can be an unnerving experience. New research unpacks the emotions of the betrayer, showing who you can and cannot trust.
Gender
AI Finds Astonishing Male/Female Differences in Human Brain
Leonard Sax M.D., Ph.D. on May 24, 2024 in Sax on Sex
Stanford neuroscientists document large male/female differences in brain connectivity.
Stanford neuroscientists document large male/female differences in brain connectivity.
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Sex
The Future of Sex
Marianne Brandon Ph.D. on May 26, 2024 in The Future of Intimacy
Adolescents and the more vulnerable among us may need help in metabolizing increasingly potent and accessible artificial lovers.
Adolescents and the more vulnerable among us may need help in metabolizing increasingly potent and accessible artificial lovers.
Positive Psychology
Why Disagreement Is a Stubborn Enemy of Listening
Guy Itzchakov Ph.D. on May 26, 2024 in The Listening Lens
A family dinner argument left me frustrated yet reflective. Discover how improving our listening skills can make our disagreements more constructive, and strengthen relationships.
A family dinner argument left me frustrated yet reflective. Discover how improving our listening skills can make our disagreements more constructive, and strengthen relationships.
Self-Help
Why Personal Growth Is Not Selfish
Stephen Joseph Ph.D. on May 26, 2024 in What Doesn't Kill Us
By making ourselves matter, we are making others matter.
By making ourselves matter, we are making others matter.
Neurodiversity
Neurodiversity on Campus: Are Colleges Affirming?
Jennifer Gerlach LCSW on May 26, 2024 in Beyond Mental Health
Neurodiversity has become a buzzword on college campuses as more and more students and faculty identify as neurodivergent. How are colleges meeting this need?
Neurodiversity has become a buzzword on college campuses as more and more students and faculty identify as neurodivergent. How are colleges meeting this need?
Grief
“Be Strong!”: What Not to Say to a Grieving Person
Tamara Goldsby Ph.D. on May 26, 2024 in Less Stress, More Peace
You don’t need to “Be Strong” when you’re grieving but reach out to others for support. If the grief gets too much, consider talking to a counselor.
You don’t need to “Be Strong” when you’re grieving but reach out to others for support. If the grief gets too much, consider talking to a counselor.
Trust
Do Doctors and Patients Understand Uncertainty in the Same Way?
Sara Gorman, Ph.D., MPH, and Jack M. Gorman, MD on May 26, 2024 in Denying to the Grave
Do frank conversations between healthcare professionals and patients about medical uncertainty improve trust? There's still a lot we don't know.
Do frank conversations between healthcare professionals and patients about medical uncertainty improve trust? There's still a lot we don't know.
Education
What Can We Do to Improve Concert Goers’s Experience?
Lu Wang Ph.D. on May 25, 2024 in Music Is Number in Space
Can new technology help classical music appeal to a broad contemporary audience?
Can new technology help classical music appeal to a broad contemporary audience?
Artificial Intelligence
The Shift from Analog to Digital to Cognitive
John Nosta on May 25, 2024 in The Digital Self
As AI and LLMs usher in The Cognitive Age, humanity faces an existential question: will our own cognition become obsolete, or will we evolve alongside our digital partners?
As AI and LLMs usher in The Cognitive Age, humanity faces an existential question: will our own cognition become obsolete, or will we evolve alongside our digital partners?
Creativity
Why We Like Cryptic Word Puzzles
Marcel Danesi Ph.D. on May 25, 2024 in Brain Workout
The clues used for creating cryptic crosswords constitute in themselves a genre of word puzzles. Solving these invariably produces a sense of pleasure that is exceptional.
The clues used for creating cryptic crosswords constitute in themselves a genre of word puzzles. Solving these invariably produces a sense of pleasure that is exceptional.
Wisdom
The Wisdom of Resentment: From Toxic to Tonic
Jessica Del Pozo, Ph.D. on May 25, 2024 in Being Awake Better
Resentment is often labeled as a toxic feeling. However, trusting the inherent wisdom of our emotions can guide us toward healing and growth.
Resentment is often labeled as a toxic feeling. However, trusting the inherent wisdom of our emotions can guide us toward healing and growth.
Parenting
7 Ways to Manage Crisis Calls From a Struggling Adult Child
Jeffrey Bernstein Ph.D. on May 25, 2024 in Liking the Child You Love
When your phone buzzes with the familiar number of your adult child in distress, navigating the conversation can feel like walking a tightrope. Here's how to keep your balance.
When your phone buzzes with the familiar number of your adult child in distress, navigating the conversation can feel like walking a tightrope. Here's how to keep your balance.
Self-Talk
What I Learned From Missing the Solar Eclipse
Nadja Halilbegovich on May 25, 2024 in From Surviving to Thriving
My disappointment taught me the value of radical acceptance and that our inner narratives define our experience.
My disappointment taught me the value of radical acceptance and that our inner narratives define our experience.
Autism
Autistic Youth Deserve Freedom from Abuse
Jennifer Gerlach LCSW on May 25, 2024 in Beyond Mental Health
Autistic youth are more than twice as likely to experience abuse than their neurotypical counterparts. How can systems better serve these families?
Autistic youth are more than twice as likely to experience abuse than their neurotypical counterparts. How can systems better serve these families?
Mindfulness
5 Ways to Find Focus in the Age of Distractions
Anita Owusu MSW, RSW on May 25, 2024 in Your Inner World
Master the art of presence and single-tasking to combat overwhelm, reclaim focus, and rediscover the joy of being fully present in every moment.
Master the art of presence and single-tasking to combat overwhelm, reclaim focus, and rediscover the joy of being fully present in every moment.
Career
5 Factors in Finding Passion in Your Career
Ran D. Anbar M.D. on May 25, 2024 in Understanding Hypnosis
Keys to finding one’s passion include patience, willingness to explore many new experiences, and engaging in activities that allow you to joyfully express your life values.
Keys to finding one’s passion include patience, willingness to explore many new experiences, and engaging in activities that allow you to joyfully express your life values.
Suicide
Recommended Standard Care for People With Suicide Risk
David A. Jobes Ph.D., ABPP on May 25, 2024 in The Psychology of Life
Survey research of hospitals shows a failure to use common sense evidence-based approaches for suicidal risk while proven psychological approaches for suicidality are rarely used.
Survey research of hospitals shows a failure to use common sense evidence-based approaches for suicidal risk while proven psychological approaches for suicidality are rarely used.
Parenting
Can You Use Your Phone While Feeding Your Baby?
Corinne Masur Psy.D. on May 25, 2024 in Parenting Matters
Looking at your phone while you are with your baby, your young child, or even your teenager deprives them of the time you'd spend together in the present.
Looking at your phone while you are with your baby, your young child, or even your teenager deprives them of the time you'd spend together in the present.
Self-Help
Visualize Your Perfect Day to Make It Come True
Susanna Newsonen on May 25, 2024 in The Path to Passionate Happiness
What could you do tomorrow or this weekend to bringyourperfect day into your reality?
What could you do tomorrow or this weekend to bringyourperfect day into your reality?
Ethics and Morality
Discover Your Evil Side
Rafa Euba on May 25, 2024 in You Are Not Meant To Be Happy
Ordinary people may behave cruelly in exceptional circ*mstances
Ordinary people may behave cruelly in exceptional circ*mstances
Relationships
A Field Guide to Life's Big Lessons, Indian Style
Rahul Bhandari on May 25, 2024 in Turning Adversity into Advantage
Dive into Indian wisdom with quirky phrases that offer life lessons in action, communication, and self-acceptance!
Dive into Indian wisdom with quirky phrases that offer life lessons in action, communication, and self-acceptance!
Therapy
Addressing Common Errors New EFT Relational Therapists Make
Jason N. Linder, PsyD on May 24, 2024 in Relationship and Trauma Insights
Feeling stuck with a case as an emotionally focused therapist? Here are five lessons from a supervisor's perspective to help you work smarter, not harder.
Feeling stuck with a case as an emotionally focused therapist? Here are five lessons from a supervisor's perspective to help you work smarter, not harder.
Health
Weight Loss Drugs Make People Feel Good—and Bad
Alexandra Brewis and Emily Mendenhall Ph.D. on May 24, 2024 in Diagnosis: Human
Weight loss drugs are transforming many people physically. But how we feel about them is an important side effect.
Weight loss drugs are transforming many people physically. But how we feel about them is an important side effect.
Motivation
Toxic Motivation: Recognize and Recover From the Cycle
Jake Breeden on May 24, 2024 in Detoxing Management
Toxic workplace tactics like threats and sacrifice may boost short-term productivity, but at a severe human cost.
Toxic workplace tactics like threats and sacrifice may boost short-term productivity, but at a severe human cost.
Relationships
How to Work Together as a Team
Robert Taibbi L.C.S.W. on May 24, 2024 in Fixing Families
We hear a lot of talk about the need to work together as a team as partners and parents, but what does that mean? Here are some key principles and ways to get there.
We hear a lot of talk about the need to work together as a team as partners and parents, but what does that mean? Here are some key principles and ways to get there.
Trauma
Early-Life Trauma, Adult Relationships, and Sexual Behavior
Robert Weiss Ph.D., LCSW, CSAT on May 24, 2024 in Love and Sex in the Digital Age
Many people fail to see the connection between childhood trauma and adult-life thoughts and actions. Thus, they may think of themselves as crazy.
Many people fail to see the connection between childhood trauma and adult-life thoughts and actions. Thus, they may think of themselves as crazy.
Therapy
Is It Ever Okay to Treat a Couple and an Individual in It?
David J. Ley Ph.D. on May 24, 2024 in Women Who Stray
The question of whether a therapist can or should provide conjoint individual and couples therapy is a hotly debated issue with no clear guidelines or answers.
The question of whether a therapist can or should provide conjoint individual and couples therapy is a hotly debated issue with no clear guidelines or answers.
Identity
Selfies and the Self
Andrea Mathews LPC, NCC on May 24, 2024 in Traversing the Inner Terrain
Is the selfie a way to authenticate the self?
Is the selfie a way to authenticate the self?
Relationships
When You Sense Someone’s Upset With You, Try This
Jeff Wetzler Ed.D. on May 24, 2024 in Unexpected Breakthroughs
Personal Perspective: What can you do when you’re pretty sure someone is upset with you, but they won’t tell you what's really going on?
Personal Perspective: What can you do when you’re pretty sure someone is upset with you, but they won’t tell you what's really going on?
Mating
Misogyny Disguised as Attraction Should Be Labeled HAZMAT
Gina Barreca Ph.D. on May 24, 2024 in Snow White Doesn't Live Here Anymore
You turn to self-hatred because it's easier than hating everybody else. Maybe if you hate yourself, you have the power to change what can happen. Emotional chaos is overwhelming.
You turn to self-hatred because it's easier than hating everybody else. Maybe if you hate yourself, you have the power to change what can happen. Emotional chaos is overwhelming.